This is something i do not want from girls

One of my friends is now in a relationship. But I don’t know the seriousness. He told me that he personally met his unknown caller girlfriend just recently. In prior to their meetings, they must have become little more acquainted through Facebook. As far as I know, they are quite different couples who have seen their hearts before faces. This indeed brings the wonders of social networking sites and telecommunication gadgets. But that is not the point.

On the first day of their meetings, the girl was demanding him to go Dechenphug and make a promise to marry her. What you can make out of this? In my view, she must have betrayed by some commitment-phobic men in her previous relationship. And today she must be in need of an immediate commitment to avoid herself falling in earlier square. Or maybe she is so eager to having a boyfriend.

But is she correct? This besides imperiling her own time to study the suitability of my friend for her life also impedes my friend from studying her. I don’t know how my friend thinks of this. But for me, she can be considered as a very dependent bimbo who will scare away any man by demanding such commitment too soon.

To have a good relationship, time is very important. What you see in front of your eyes may not be as appropriate as one which you see when looking away from it after having adjusted your glasses. Moreover, boys grow suspicious when a girl pushes herself so much just like how we feel when a shopkeeper forces his products so much.

Whom you consider as Mr. Perfect now may turn beast later. That is why I said time is important in a relationship. You must be patient to test whether your Mr. Perfect will remain like that forever. Otherwise, once you are in with Mr. Perfect who later turn into Beast, things will remain irrecoverable. Many things of you would have been wasted by then. Even if you are able to start one, you’ll have to start from the scratch. This can be one reason out of many for broken families.

Boys today had gone like frogs. Therefore, the better option for you girls is to kiss every frog you come across because the more frogs you kiss higher will be the possibility of discovering your own prince. After all without little patience and hard work nothing comes for free. Finding one and demanding commitment so soon is obviously not the right way. And am also gonna request my friend not to throw his commitment right away.     

Souce: sherab tenzin.....Thank you